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A New Year, A Kinky New You!

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Here’s to 2018! 

I don’t know about you, but I am glad to have a new year on the books.

Lots of fun things will take place over here at Mistress J’s. The biggest news is I will be redecorating my house and play space! That includes new paint and flooring, and maybe one or two new pieces of furniture. I am so excited for this makeover.

Speaking of makeovers, many people use a new year to try new things, get a new hair style, and kick old habits to the curb. I have a fabulous idea! How about if I help you with a NEW habit; a Kinky New You for 2018? After all, Mistress J is a giver, and her business is all about pleasure. Sounds like she’s the right person to help you get your kink on, or maybe I should say get the kinks out. ha ha

Bad boys, bad boys…

Bondage: Have you ever wanted to feel helpless in a controlled way?

I have some shiny, bright handcuffs. We can play a game of cops and robbers. I will be the cop of course, while you get a strip and cavity search! Are you hiding something? Perhaps I need to dig pretty deep.

My St. Andrews Cross intrigues many people. Imaging being spread armed and eagled with no way to dismount. I could do WHATEVER I wanted to you. Oh the horror!

I could tickle you, spank you, tease your junk and do it with you blindfolded. I have lots of toys and tools, and you are just an object for my desire and imagination… Poor baby,

 

Anal Play: For many men, their deepest and darkest desires are to be pegged, I like to make a man spread his ass cheeks and become my Bend Over Boyfriend!

I have a fine selection of dongs ranging from small to destroyer. And don’t forget, I am the proud owner of a Drill-Do! Your New Year’s Resolution could be to take it for a spin!

 

Femminization: Perhaps you have always had a fantasy of femminization? Well, I have a selection of wigs, jewelry, shoes and clothing to bring out the lady in you. You can be naughty or nice. I like it all! And you will too.

 

Whatever you desire, I am sure we can make it happen here at my studio. I do have a few hard limits: No scat, blood, diaper or age play. I also don’t wrestle, smoke anything, and will not see an inebriated guest.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

Having a Ball!

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Twist and shout

Bollocks! Mistress J loves to play with balls. They swing and bounce, they are fun to poke and prod and even twist! As my plaything, I get to do what I want to you. Instead of grabbing a fistful of dollars, I often will grab a fistful of balls!

Ball play is fun because it doesn’t need to be extreme, so everyone can enjoy. I grab both balls in one hand, pull them away from the body and twist. By keeping them together, there is no pain. Now, if you are craving a little pain, let me know and I’ll accommodate you!

twinkle toes

 When things start to get serious in a session, I’ll take off my shoes. Now My toes can join in the fun! My toes like the feel of balls. I like to step on them, grab the ball sack with my cute little toes and pull. My visitor enjoys looking at my manicured feet playing with his privates. Sometimes, I’ll even give the hair a little tug.

In some cases, I don’t want you looking at me.  When that happens, I turn you to the wall and go to town on the back of the balls! Poor baby…

 

Ouch!

For more extreme play and discipline, I’ll bring out my parachute that has little pins on the inside. The cute little chains that hang down are not only decorative, but serve a purpose. I can hang weights from them! And, as you can imagine, I have several.

For some reason, my male friends tend to walk on their tippy toes when this thing is dangling from the family jewels. Why is that?

The ice is right!

Things often get pretty heated here during a session with me. Have no fear, I have a simple remedy; a nice cold ice bag! This makes me smile just thinking about using it!

I get a lot of gratification playing with the gonads. This blog post only showcases a small sampling of the fun we can have together, so I suggest booking a session as soon as possible!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Drilling Me Softly… The Joy of the Drill-Do!

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“I heard she sang a good song…”*

Wanna get tooled?

Yes, Mistress J is always on the lookout for new toys, and since 90% of her visitors enjoy ass play, she recently invested in a Drill-Do.

You see, women enjoy power tools as much as men, and this lil’ beauty has proven itself to be the queen of my crop. (pun intended)

This is an actual drill by Chicago Electric. I find that very appropriate since Mistress J’s family comes from Chicago. Serendipity perhaps?

This drill has a unique cock attachment and can accommodate any vac-u-lock style dong. The good news is, if I want to do any remodeling, I can switch out the cock attachment for a saw and take down what needs to come down. But, I digress.

The Drill-Do has proven itself to be a safe and fun toy that brings much pleasure to both parties. Mistress J is a stickler for hygiene, always uses a condom, and thoroughly cleans each and every item after use. 

Instead of a drill bit, I call it a drill butt!

Long term visitor Allen was my first victim. He submitted to some wax play and as he presented his lovely butt to me, I inserted the Drill-do. 

I think we we both a little nervous. I had never used a saw before and was unsure of the power and if I could handle such a machine. Allen was nervous because he was on the receiving end, and as someone very familiar with power tools, and, well, nothing more needs to be said.

I slipped on a condom and lubed up the dong. Once securely in place, I started the machine on low. I heard a delightful humming and couldn’t tell if it came from Allen or the Drill-Do. Perhaps both?

A Happy Mistress!

After the initial warm up, Allen gave the OK for faster power.  Soon, I had the Drill-Do going full speed! I felt so powerful holing my butt drill. Allen was very happy and could really take it, so I gave it.

Sweet Caroline

I am so glad I have my new toy. This has proven to be worth every penny, and is my ultimate tool. I have used it on quite a few butts, all with raving reviews. Mistress J has mastered the machine!

As always, Mistress J is looking for a few good men or women to play with.

Wanna try the Drill-Do? I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*From Roberta Flak’s Killing me softly with his song.

Down of the Farm. Fall is Harvest Time!

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Were you pervs aware Mistress J is a farmer? Yes indeed. She specializes in a particular form of animal husbandry; the male cock! And now that its fall, let’s harvest these guys.

 

Big, angry cock!

Cockadoodledo!

The farm is a serene place, full of peaceful animals except for one. There is one very large, angry cock with a bright red head. Look at him! Why is he mad? Perhaps he needs a spanking to straighten him out.

 

Peter Cotton Balls.

 

Bunnies happily frolic in the barnyard. Look at Peter Cotton Balls. Isn’t he cute? I think so, and in typical bunny fashion, it looks like he’s ready to multiply!

 

Lots of hay and tools are regularly used on my farm. Perhaps I have even used a few on you? Mistress J keeps her tools clean and organized, as you can see here.  Farmer J knows the perfect tool is necessary for a good harvest. She is always buying new things. 

 

A very special tool is the drip bucket. Drips and spills occur almost daily. An organized farmer like Mistress J has a bucket ready to go to collect milky white substances.

Remember the rhyme “Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water”? Well, Mistress J tends to fetch other liquids here on the farm, and the cocks don’t complain either…

 

More Cowbell!

And no farm can be complete without cowbells!

 

 

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and want to visit the farm, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

The Perils of Being My Plaything!

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It’s not my fault you are a dirty slut. But you are, and you need to be punished!

When you visit me, you agree to be my plaything. Your body is here for my amusement and entertainment. After we negotiate our boundaries, you become mine!  Now the peril begins…   

 

Taming the Teat:

Got sensitive nipples? I think nipple suckers are just the thing! Are you worried your nipples are too small? Relax, after an hour in one of these, your nipples will be nice and plump as the compression sends the blood to the desired area. They will be nice and tender afterwards too.

Girls just want to have fun. And this little lady liked electrical play on her nipples! Such a naughty thing. She needed to be put in her place. She was, and she liked it.

 

 

Humble Beginnings:

You know I like my men humble. I have both a homemade humbler and a store bought humbler. Here, Mike models the store bought humbler and a variety of festive clothespins I picked up last year on my vacation in Poland. Ain’t they pretty? And they feel sooo nice when Mistress takes them off! For some reason this photo makes me smile.

 

 

 

Controlling  the Cock:

Zap, Crackle, Pop! A fabulous erection controlling device is my zapper! The violet want comes with a variety of attachments and delivers a satisfying jolt wherever it’s needed. Leo is wearing the homemade humbler and to prevent him from finishing, I give him a hearty zap now and again. Another fun use for this is to use it during an edging session. A well timed zap keeps things in check.  You see, Miss J like to control everything! 

 

Where’s the beef?

Sometimes a man simply can’t control his erection! If that is the case, chastity shows him who’s the boss. Me! Here, Mike proudly submits to being locked up in his Bon 4 metal cage. He is owned by me and will now experience long term confinement. 

 

 

So that’s the story pervs.

If you are a nasty thing and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Handmade Tale. A Peek Inside Mistress J’s Dungeon!

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You CAN keep a good man down!

 

It is said that necessity it the mother of invention. Well, Mistress J is blessed with a keen imagination and talented kinky friends who can help her invent pervy items for the dungeon!

Let’s take a look around the dungeon and see what has been crafted by hand.

The largest item is my cross. Made by Max, this cross has the ability to come apart for transportation. The wooden panels are attached to the metal X, which Max fabricated himself. The wood is birch, and now has a dark stain on it.

This photo is of the cross before it was stained. I think it needs a second coat. Who wants to be a good boy and do it for me? 

You might also notice I now have different curtains. I like changing things up now and again.

I love having nekkid men kneel in front of it for me.  A good place for a man is on all fours with his arse in the air, ready for inspection…

 

The second largest item is my Queening Chair. Perhaps you are wondering if this is a chair for short people? The answer is no. The chair is for the lady’s comfort during certain activities. The height is perfect for panty sniffing and administering showers into the mouth while the person in question lies beneath.  The chair also allows the lady to be comfortable while using her feet on select body parts. After all, why should Mistress J be uncomfortable, that’s the sub’s job!

The chair was modified by Tanya Caress. This is the last remaining chairs from my late grandmother’s beloved dining room set. I still have the table in my dining area. It is a gorgeous parquet patterned solid wood table, and I plan to keep it forever.  The chair is appropriately Queen Anne in style. Fit for royalty I say. I wonder if Grandma would approve of it’s current use?

 

I love to have access to various parts. A spreader bar helps with that purpose. I pry open a man’s legs, then cuff their ankles to the bar. I often pull their legs back and chain them to the wall. Such a nice view.

The spreader bar was also a Tanya Caress specialty, re-purposed from a closet rod. I still use it to hang things. ha ha.

 

One of my favorite items is my home made humbler. Simple and inexpensive, the humbler fits ALL sizes of balls because it is just dowels and rubber bands. I pull the junk back between the legs and secure the dowels around it. Try standing up and walking, I dare you!

On the same note, a pair of chopsticks and some rubber bands really show a nipple who is the boss. These two items give a new meaning to the term morning wood! 

 

I know these items are tempting you. Give in to your desire and give me a call. I’d love to create a session just for you!

If you are curious about my dungeon and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.
 

Mistress J Goes on a Photo Shoot!

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Today (May 6) is my birthday! And, my gift to you is a link to my photo session and a description of my experience!

I bought  Groupon for Krazy Zexy. I remember Kamran from when we were both in the wedding photography business. I knew he was a great shooter and had been doing boudoir photography for a while. I think by looking at his website, you see how good he is with posing and lighting. He is also very good at capturing the smoldering sexy woman lying just below the surface, a skill you don’t learn in school, but are born with.

Kamran recognized me when I emailed him and I told him these were business photographs and I was now a Bondassage practitioner. We had an email consultation about outfits and accessories and planned a date.

I was told to expect to be at the studio for about 3 hours. I arrived at 9 am on a Monday and had professional hair and makeup done. That was about an hour and a half. Then I sat a bit with Kamran.

This is when I was pulled out of my comfort zone. You see, Mistress J is used to being in charge. She is in charge of her sessions (as you all know). Even when she ran her vanilla photo business she was in charge. But here, I had to turn myself over to someone else and that’s a bit tough.

It started out like on of my sessions. He had me sit down and asked ME questions! Can you believe it?  Questions about my work, personal life, how Mistress J came about, what did I want to convey, what were my hard limits and safe words.

After what felt like an hour of questions, but what was really only 15 minutes, we began to do the photos. This was the fun and the hard part. Hard because I was on the other side of the lens. I had to hold the uncomfortable poses. I was the one insecure about my short legs and such. But it was also fun being the center of attention. I got to be elegant and fancy. It was all about me I was the receiver and not the giver. This was exciting and new, and also a little uncomfortable, as I am most comfortable giving.

I got to experience what my long time client Frank experienced during his first of three photo shoots with me. I got to be the model. I was put on display and admired, and my hair looked good too, how fun is that!

The shoot went longer than three hours, almost five. I guess Mistress J is a muse for many, and Kamran was so caught up in me that we went over. 

Here is one of my favorite images from the shoot. I think it captures my sassy and playful side, don’t you? 

Enjoy the gift of looking at me today. I hope to hear from you soon.

Mistress J

 

Stop and smell the roses! Panty Sniffing in San Jose.

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The Scent of a Woman. It’s intoxicating. So much that they even named a movie after it. 

I get very sweaty down there while I work, and my panties pay the price!

Panty sniffing is a popular fetish. Some men simply can’t get enough of the female smell.  Smell is a pwerful motivator. 

Wikipedia states “Olfactophilia or osmolagnia is a paraphilia for, or sexual arousal by, smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas.” One man said my nether regions smell like “A salty ocean breeze.”

Taking in the salty air…

I often have guests ask if they can have the honor of smelling my undies. I often comply, and if I know in advance of their penchant for panties, I will don a pair of well worn fragrant ones, and let them enjoy the bouquet!

Smothering is a popular request.  As my guest lies on his back, I envelop his nose and mouth as I sit down. He is smothered by my thighs and ‘things’ until he can’t breathe. Now, imagine a gentleman with a panty fetish enjoying those sights and smells while I wear well worn and dirty panties! 

Mistress J is a big fan of thongs, and wears them daily, but some men have a granny panty fetish. I have had several clients request that I wear traditional nylon knickers, the kind you buy at Target eight to a pack. Perhaps they remind them of days gone by, like seeing them on the neighbor’s clothes line as they dry in the afternoon breeze. 

Granny panties!

Here is a photo of my round, curvy, juicy bottom fully encased in shiny nylon. What are your thoughts? 

I have been known to give my guest a lovely parting gift of the panties worn during the session. These are the ones he has sniffed and worn on his face. I put them in a sandwich baggie to preserve the smell, and my guest gets to think of our session every time he opens the bag!

Some men want to wear my panties, mingling their scent with mine. How naughty and intimate!

Now remember readers,  a true gentleman would NEVER steal a woman’s panties. That is just plain rude! 

A glimpse up my skirt.

After all, these small articles of fabric can be expensive, and every gal has her favorite pair. Most gals are happy to donate their dainties if asked. But theft is just wrong. Mistress J does not tolerate that kind of behavior.

If you are curious about the smell of my panties and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Lending a Helping Hand. Male Masturbators & Tools of the Trade.

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Mistress J is always looking for tools and toys to enhance your experience here at the studio. Some of her favorite shopping sites are Extreme Restraints and The Stockroom. If someone wanted to send me a gift card from either site, Mistress J wouldn’t complain!

But I digress.

Me & Lelo

Using a masturbator provides new sensations down south. While I assume most visitors don’t tire of Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters,  Miss J is always looking to shake things up (pun intended). So what exciting things can be explored? Keep reading.

My newest and favorite tool is the Hummingbird. This non-porous plastic sleeve fits on either of my two wands and provides a snug vibration that will get your juices flowing and send you over the edge!

I am the proud owner of two wands. One is the Hitachi Magic Wand or Slut Machine as I like to call it. The Hitachi plugs into the wall and delivers a powerful punch of vibration. One could say it pulses faster than an actual hummingbird’s wings. When flying solo, this is a very efficient tool. It gets the job done in 30 seconds.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Fits like a glove!

The Lelo wand on the other hand, is softer, sophisticated, subtle quiet, and slowly builds up, similar to a kettle boiling. This makes it GREAT for couples play. The subtleties of this wand provide superior spasms upon crescendo! That’s why I love using the hummingbird on this one.  As an edging expert, I like to keep a guy on the perimeter as long as I can.  

If I want to test your endurance, I put the hummingbird on the Hitachi and watch you struggle to maintain control. 

This is what my client ” Los” had to say about the hummingbird.

“I have never experienced anything like it. I remember the pleasure running though me with such intensity that I gasped involuntary. At some point she turned the intensity or volume higher which immediately overwhelmed me.  I liked it too much.”

So there you have it.

Perhaps one shouldn’t put all their eggs in one basket, but with a basket full of TENGA eggs, there’s no need to diversify! The TENGA EGG is made of a super stretchy material has a bumpy inside. Here is the description taken from the TENGA website:

These egg whites are cholesterol free…

Different Strokes from Different Yolks! Super-Stretch Sleeves for Pleasure! The TENGA EGG Series may look small, but their super-stretchable material can fit men of all sizes! The external designs of each EGG reflect the internal details within them – with a total of 13 EGGs to choose from you’re sure to find a perfect match!

I especially enjoy using these in my FBSM and Bondassage/Elysium sessions. I climb on top of my client and slip the egg on to their um, egg beater,  and slowly twist and stroke. Each egg has a different inside, so your experience can vary each time I use one on you. Now, for hygiene reasons, I only use one to a customer. And, since it comes with a unique carrying case, I offer you your egg to take home as a party favor.

From now until Easter 2017. I am offering an Egg-cellent special session. You don some bunny ears and go on an Easter egg hunt throughout my studio. When you find the TENGA Egg, I’ll use it on you!

One of the pleasure of having someone use a masturbatory on you is an element of naughtiness. I mean, after all, you are getting edged by a thing not a person! How devious. And, to make it more naughty, if feels good! Oh my.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about male masturbators and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

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To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed. 

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

 This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this.  And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.