Women have been given the permission to allow their sexuality to be more fluid. We are given the permission at a young age to brush each others hair, sit close and  it is always permissible for two women to sleep in a bed together, in a non-sexual context without any type of questioning of their sexual preference. It is also acceptable for women to wear pants. It is hard to believe this was not socially acceptable not that long ago.

Men don’t have it so easy of course. They must keep their sexuality in check. It seems society makes it so they can either be gay or straight, with no in between. These past few months, I have had the opportunity to have some frank and intense discussions with a few gentlemen on the topic of what heteroflexibility means to them and their sexuality. The discussions were incredibly varied, detailed and passionate.

The gentlemen in question all agreed to being curious to exploring their curiosity under the loving  guidance of a Mistress (me). But that is another blog post.

Today, I am going to discuss a photo session I had with a man named Moe. Moe is what many consider a man’s man. Rugged, sun kissed and manly, this country boy cowboy on occasion flirts with his feminine side.  Moe is successful in business, a caretaker of his aging mother and horse trainer. He also has an affinity for women’s clothing. He likes to flirt, hide his male parts and express himself in ways one might consider feminine.

This of course must be done in private, which is why he came to me. He does have a bit of an exhibitionist streak, and allowed me to use his photos. So it is an interesting dichotomy.  Compare these two images. The first he presents himself as a confident man. The gaze is straight on, looking at me (my camera) boldly in the eye. His legs are open and his manhood exposed. To me, his body language and gaze are inviting the viewer in for sexual contact. Per my customer request, I have blocked out his manly bits.

The second image shows him to be more vulnerable.  His pose is demure submissive, feminine. Men are not supposed to hide their genitals. The other half of the population suffers from penis envy, so expose your junk man and be proud of it! Is he ashamed? Maybe. The pink backdrop was deliberately  selected for this shoot, after all real me don’t like pink.

Moe then brought out his lady garments and I helped him become one of his favorite alter egos “Goth Girl”.  Hose, corset, dress, veil and a quick application of makeup transformed him. It does not matter if he can pass for a girl. That is not his objective. Moe wanted a safe place to document his other side. My studio provided that.

In my upcoming blog posts you will see a reoccurring statement from me. Mistress J studios is a sex positive studio. My studio is a safe place and create art of a sensual nature so my clients can expose a piece of themselves that may remain hidden most of the time. I take pride in producing high quality photography. Every session is custom designed for each client. During a session you receive from me my undivided attention, my time and talent and commitment in making your photographic and artistic yearnings come to creation.

Intrigued? Contact me. My email is Mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.

About Mistress J

Cuffs or crop?

Two weeks ago I had the pleasure of photographing scream queen Debra Lamb in my beautiful Sunnyvale studio. Debra and I have similar artistic visions, and she chose Mistress J Studios because I specialize in high quality sexy and erotic photography.

.One of my favorite things about working with Debra is she knows her angles, how to move, and can immediately get back into a pose if she has to stop. That is the main difference between working with a professional actress and a non actor. Knowing the angles and poses helps so much.

Debra also isn’t shy at all! She is willing to try anything, bare it all and have a good time.

Debbie Does Dommina

She is also incredibly flexible and supple.

I hope you just take a moment to enjoy these photographs of a beautiful and talented woman.

If you want sexy nude, fetish, kink or boudoir photography, visit Mistress J Studios. I have a large private and beautiful studio in Sunnyvale. I can take care of all of your photographic needs.

Until later,

Mistress J

I have a flogger and know how to use it!

Mistress is mad.

I have been looking at many other kink photographer’s work and while beautiful, the focus is usually women. I enjoy the female form as much as the next Domme, but the male body rocks too. I am on a mission to end this imbalance of representation! My goal for 2011 is to get an exhibit going featuring the gorgeous male body nude and in various kinky ways.

I love the strength of a man’s arms and shoulders and the way the masculine contours

Mistress J loves strong shoulders!

absorb the light and shadows. The male form begs to be photographed in black and white. Look at this photo on the right. Don’t you want to run your hands across his strong, wide shoulders, down his arms, up again and down his back? I do.

I also think the male body lends itself to more mystery then a woman’s. Perhaps

What is under the blanket?

I am just partial. I love the combination of strength and sensuality, and at times even a little vulnerable. Since photography is composed of contradictions, light and dark the male physique is contradictory too. It is both hard and soft. Smooth and rough.

So, as I end my post on the beauty of the male form. Think of ways you would want to see Mistress J photograph various male subjects. Comment on this blog or email me at mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I’d love to hear your thoughts and get a dialogue going.

-Mistress J

Mistress J had a fun experience at Sedusa Studios in Campbell when I did a pole dancing session with the girls! You wouldn’t think that pole dancing was a good workout but after doing it for awhile, it drains you out! Being able to do this was an empowering. I feel like I could roar!

It is an artistic performance as well. You create a sensual experience as your body twists and turns around the pole. As you grow further into the performance, the energy around you heightens and you feel as if you can fly.

Of course after the session of pole dancing,  I needed a drink. So I got a Lemon drop at Dell Saloon (www.thegranddell.com/) which was completely amazing! Yum!

While enjoying our drinks, my friend brought out her whip from Bliss Connection which got a lot of the attention!! As my friend Chrystal says, no girl ever has to buy a drink while carrying a whip.

It was an remarkable experience and I suggest everyone try this. You can even do a photo shot while doing pole dancing in my beautiful Sunnyvale studio! Contact me today to set up a photo shoot! Mistress J of Mistress J Studios specializes in all kinds of sexy shoots.

Mistress had a call from a man who wanted nude photographs of himself. We arranged a date and time and he showed up promptly, which Mistress likes.

I take the sessions very seriously and care for the satisfaction of my clients. I could tell he was a little nervous, despite a few email and phone conversations. I think many people, male or female might experience a little shame or embarrassment in wanting to have an erotic or nude photograph taken.

I think the reasons for this are many. The first being societal pressure. Then the other questions come up. Why would someone want to do this? Should I spend the money? Would my spouse disapprove? Am I too kinky? What is wrong with me?

Nothing is wrong. The human body is beautiful. We are sensual people, and we all deserve to feel beautiful and sexy, even just for a few minutes. Here at Mistress J Studios, that’s what I do. I photograph your sexiness. You can exhibit your kinks and fetishes (just no kids or animals), dress up or dress down and let your inner light shine.

Many people only show one face to the world, and keep the other one hidden. Show it to me. Share it, and in return you will have beautiful, tastefully done photographs to remember your experience in my studio.

Call for your session today. 408-239-6033. My website is always up and ready for visitors.