Lending a Helping Hand. Male Masturbators & Tools of the Trade.

Posted on March 7, 2017 by Mistress J

Mistress J is always looking for tools and toys to enhance your experience here at the studio. Some of her favorite shopping sites are Extreme Restraints and The Stockroom. If someone wanted to send me a gift card from either site, Mistress J wouldn’t complain!

But I digress.

Me & Lelo

Using a masturbator provides new sensations down south. While I assume most visitors don’t tire of Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters, Miss J is always looking to shake things up (pun intended). So what exciting things can be explored? Keep reading.

My newest and favorite tool is the Hummingbird. This non-porous plastic sleeve fits on either of my two wands and provides a snug vibration that will get your juices flowing and send you over the edge!

I am the proud owner of two wands. One is the Hitachi Magic Wand or Slut Machine as I like to call it. The Hitachi plugs into the wall and delivers a powerful punch of vibration. One could say it pulses faster than an actual hummingbird’s wings. When flying solo, this is a very efficient tool. It gets the job done in 30 seconds.

Birds of a feather flock together.

Fits like a glove!

The Lelo wand on the other hand, is softer, sophisticated, subtle quiet, and slowly builds up, similar to a kettle boiling. This makes it GREAT for couples play. The subtleties of this wand provide superior spasms upon crescendo! That’s why I love using the hummingbird on this one. As an edging expert, I like to keep a guy on the perimeter as long as I can.

If I want to test your endurance, I put the hummingbird on the Hitachi and watch you struggle to maintain control.

This is what my client ” Los” had to say about the hummingbird.

“I have never experienced anything like it. I remember the pleasure running though me with such intensity that I gasped involuntary. At some point she turned the intensity or volume higher which immediately overwhelmed me. I liked it too much.”

So there you have it.

Perhaps one shouldn’t put all their eggs in one basket, but with a basket full of TENGA eggs, there’s no need to diversify! The TENGA EGG is made of a super stretchy material has a bumpy inside. Here is the description taken from the TENGA website:

These egg whites are cholesterol free…

Different Strokes from Different Yolks! Super-Stretch Sleeves for Pleasure! The TENGA EGG Series may look small, but their super-stretchable material can fit men of all sizes! The external designs of each EGG reflect the internal details within them – with a total of 13 EGGs to choose from you’re sure to find a perfect match!

I especially enjoy using these in my FBSM and Bondassage/Elysium sessions. I climb on top of my client and slip the egg on to their um, egg beater, and slowly twist and stroke. Each egg has a different inside, so your experience can vary each time I use one on you. Now, for hygiene reasons, I only use one to a customer. And, since it comes with a unique carrying case, I offer you your egg to take home as a party favor.

From now until Easter 2017. I am offering an Egg-cellent special session. You don some bunny ears and go on an Easter egg hunt throughout my studio. When you find the TENGA Egg, I’ll use it on you!

One of the pleasure of having someone use a masturbatory on you is an element of naughtiness. I mean, after all, you are getting edged by a thing not a person! How devious. And, to make it more naughty, if feels good! Oh my.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about male masturbators and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Trimming the Weeds. Or, Should a Man Manscape?

Posted on March 3, 2017 by Mistress J

To manscape, or not to manscape? That is the question.

If a client asks me if they should manscape, I ask them if they like their partners hairy. I leave it at that and let them decide. After all, hairiness is a two-way street.

I am a very open minded Mistress, and enjoy the male body in all forms, and I do enjoy me some male chest hair, especially to rub my feet in. But when it comes to the nether regions, my opinion is, trimmed is best. Not bald, or totally bushy, but trimmed.

This is for a few reasons. One, it’s pretty and the hair does not visually detract from the main attraction.

The second reason is for CBT, or cock ball torture. If you want Mistress J to tie up your balls with rope, shorter hair is better. Now, if you are a hard core masochist, the longer pubes will get pulled and twisted along with the goods. Perhaps that’s what you desire?

The third and most important is cleanliness. Sometimes particles can get trapped in butt hair despite a vigorous shower. Good boys want to be minty fresh for their Mistress.

This graphic will give you a good idea on why Dommes might enjoy a clean works pace.

Decorating is a breeze!

Gents, you won’t get no action, if we can’t see what your packin’!

That being said, while I prefer things trimmed down under, I won’t turn away anyone who looks like this. And while I understand some areas are hard to reach, I offer erotic shaving as part of a session. Imagine me, warm water, shave gel and a sharp razor by your bits!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about being shaved and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Wax On, Wax Off. Wax Play With Mistress J

Posted on February 7, 2017 by Mistress J

Grasshopper, I know sometimes your cravings require a delicate balance between sensuality and sadism. I am writing about the perfect session for you. A hot wax session! Hot candle wax play is fun. It is artistic. It requires submission and tolerance. And, if scented candles are used, can be a fruity good time!

Ryan was feeling stressed out. I invited him over for a hot wax session and he readily agreed. My weapons of choice that day were a white pillar candle, a red cranberry candle in a tin, an evergreen scented candle and two sex candles. One in purple, the other red.

I lit the candles 10 minutes before he arrived, so the wax would be nice and gooey when it was time to play. After he stretched his nekkid body on the massage table, we got down to business.

Securing his hands to the table, I proceeded to pour the colorful wax on his shoulders. Red, purple, green, white. So colorful and pretty.

Ryan enjoyed the warm wax dripping onto his skin. Sometimes he’d wiggle if a drop was unusually hot, then he’d settle back down and mutter his pleasure at the heat.

I pour my wax from a pretty high angle to prevent burning the skin. The distance gives the wax time to cool off so the subject won’t get burned. We did a side by side comparison of a sex candle vs. a regular candle. The reviews were mixed.

Ryan thought the sex candles (which claim to burn at a lower temperature) actually felt hotter on contact, but cooled faster then a soy candle. Another client said the opposite. He thought the sex candles were 5 degrees cooler. I found these results interesting, and I think more research is in order.

Ryan’s back and shoulders are hairless, so I poured the wax with glee. You could say that I poured my heart out to him. Ha, ha. His ass was a little hairy, so I rubbed some massage oil in before coating his buns. A coat of oil helps the wax come off the hair. Ryan said the oil made the wax feel a tiny bit hotter, something he enjoyed! I also made sure I coated his balls.

Now, I have played with Ryan many times and I know his tastes and limits. He is a pain, sensation and bondage slut. If I am browsing the internet for toys and am doubtful, I ask myself, “would Ryan like this?” If the answer is yes, I buy it. My point is, I knew he could take the heat of the wax and enjoy it. I know wax play isn’t for everyone, but those who like it, will enjoy a session with lil’ ol’ me.

Love, Italian style!

That is a good lead in for the next part. I poured wax in his butt crack and balls! Ryan wiggled and giggled. He liked it. I knew he would, the little perv. I used green, red and white wax for his under carriage. How festive it looked. Viva Italia! I had a sudden craving for pasta.

The session went on with me pouring wax all over him. Eventually, he like, totally, looked like an 80’s splatter painting, it was sooo rad! He was so bright and colorful. And the dried wax created a little bit of a restricted feeling, another thing Ryan enjoyed.

When I felt my masterpiece was complete, I stopped pouring and let the wax harden. Now it was time to clean him up for the shower! I took one of the cat claws and scraped off the wax. It came off in hard clumps. Little bits clung to the hair on his balls. I used a dry brush and got them clean. He seemed to enjoy the attention down there.

Feel like experiencing some hot wax play? I’d love to pour it on thick!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about wax play & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium. The Sensual Side at the Studio.

Posted on December 28, 2016 by Mistress J

It is true Mistress J enjoys blogging about (with client permission) some of her extreme sessions. But many of the sessions here are sensual, and she likes it that way!

I spend a lot of my week doing sensual massage, and my new session, the Tie & Tease has become a customer favorite.

I’ll explain a little about my three sensual massage sessions FBSM, Tie & Tease and Elysium, with pictures depicting Elysium and the Tie & Tease.

Warm lube and oil feels of so nice!

In a FBSM session, you spend 60% face down and 40% face up. We always start face down. Your arms and legs are free.

In Elysium and the Tie & Tease, you are restrained

Elysium is more 50/50 face up and down, but remember, in this session, your arms and legs are tied down to the table and are blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You really sink into subspace in this one.

Can’t touch this!

The Tie & Tease is a face up session. The whole time your sexy body is exposed to me. You are tied down, and you become a little toy for me to play with!

When one is tied down, they can look, or feel, but not touch. Often, my client ends up struggling against the restraints, muttering he wishes he could be free. That always makes me smile.

Schwing!

As you stretch out your nude body in my warm playroom, I heat the massage oil and lube, along with some hot towels.

In all of my sensual sessions, you will experience sensation play. What is that you ask? Well, you can expect to experience a variety of objects all along your body. Some might be soft and fluffy, others a little scratchy, some pointy, some tickling, and for some, even mildly electric! Electric current can be very sensual when on a low setting.

Set to special music, all of these sessions start off slow. I like to think of each session as a slow seduction. I am the seducer of course, you, my object of desire. Slowly, I caress and tease your body, sending up shivers of delight. Face down or face up, something begins to rise to the occasion.

After a nice beginning of sensation play, I do a nice body to body oil glide. My LUSCIOUS, CURVY BODY teases and torments you as I glide over you with warm oil. Remember, in an Elysium session, you’ll be deprived of sight and sound, so you won’t know what’s happening!

It is after the glide when I turn you over.

Taking “matters” into my own hands!

I really enjoy teasing and playing the edge game. I tease you with my hands. Think slow Klixen massage. Such agonizing torment!

Over & over, I play with you, until you think you will explode. I love watching you struggle to maintain control over your body, which wants to rupture in delight. I bring you oh-so-close to the edge.

Then I back off, then do it again…

How long can you hold out?

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about the Tie & Tease, Elysium, FBSM & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Animal Crackers. Pony & Puppy Play with Mistress J!

Posted on October 31, 2016 by Mistress J

Happy Halloween! And in the spirit of the day, I will talk about a niche fetish, Pony Play…

You might be asking yourself why would someone want to be an animal? Animal roleplay of sorts has been around for centuries. A tribal member would sometimes take the form physically and often spiritually of an animal that was either revered or hunted.

Humans and animals have also had a close connection since time began. The horse, dog and cat being treasured friends. Both the human and the animal sharing a co-dependent relationship that is far from dysfunctional.

Recently, I had the honor of photographing some sexy animals and their handlers. It was loads of fun, and I even go to play a little.

Ride, Sally, ride!

One gentleman enjoys being a pony. Being a take charge kinda guy, he loves the feeling of submission to strong sexy women. Being a very fit Ironman athlete, he loves to have women ride his back and take him for a walk. While he prefers the feel of a naked woman straddled across his shoulders,

Mistress J did not do a nude photo shoot, so you will need to use your imagination on that one pervs.

I have had this particular pony over to the studio and have indeed straddled his strong, lithe back between my bare thighs. I felt his rolling tendons and had to clamp my thighs tight around him to stay astride. We walked all around the upper floor of my home. He was a good pony handling my weight well. I only had to use the crop on him twice. He was rewarded with carrots and petting afterwards.

Other folks like to be dogs. Dogs love the attention and affection lavished on them by their humans.

Humans love the seemingly unconditional love they get from their pets, and pets thrive when loved and cherished by their owners.

“Happiness is a warm puppy.”
― Charles M. Schulz

Since many people have an altar ego, it makes sense that that altar ego does not need to be human. Who hasn’t admired the majesty of an animal running in the field or flying in the sky. Their grace and beauty is astounding. Their intelligence apparent, and when one connects with an animal it really is magic.

In some cases, pet play is seen as a loving, quiet cuddling time where there is no need for verbalization and the simple act of stroking, rubbing and holding the other partner is satisfying or reassuring in and of itself for those involved.

For still others, there is the experience of power play setup in a context or structure which they can accept. Clearly, again, it depends on the people involved and what they bring to it or take from it.

All in all, Mistress J is very fond of animals.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, or animal play, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Makin’ You My Bitch, or, Owning Your Ass.

Posted on October 19, 2016 by Mistress J

A session might go like this…

I answer the door to your knock, smiling in anticipation of tonight’s events. You enter shyly, also smiling and your eyes light up in pleasure at the sight of me.

cock I invite you into the living room, admiring the way your jeans hang on your hips. Your clothes always have a casual elegance, and your energy tonight is playful and boyish. “Your ass is mine tonight,” I say to myself as you remove your coat and hang it up.

I let you sit down and relax just a bit. Over tea, we discuss pleasantries. I think you are confused as to why I am treating you almost as an equal. I look into your eyes, and see your guard going down just a bit, and that is my trigger.

I take you up to my playroom. I close the door behind us and you look at me with some surprise, the door is never closed during play.

“Strip quickly.” I command. You have no choice but to obey.

I point to the floor and you kneel down, hands behind your back. I slowly circle you, admiring your body. Touching you where I want, teasing your chest hair, tweaking a nipple. I lean over you and put my black leather collar around your neck. Once it’s on, I pause, holding you close to me and we breathe deeply together for a moment. I inhale your heady male scent and slide my tongue up to your ear.

“I’m making you my little bitch tonight.” I whisper. I feel you tremble in anticipation. You have longed for this, begged for it, hungered to be made mine. It is finally going to happen.

I have you stand up and I place your ankles in my cuffs and spread your legs wide with my spreader bar. Confined and open, I bend you over my green couch and you rest on your elbows, ass in the air.

I slap that sweet little ass and the smacking sound excites me. I slip a well lubed and gloved finger inside your ass and feel that tight warmth. Slowly and firmly I move my finger in and out, loosening you up. I can feel you relax a bit, you start to slowly grind my fingers. I stick in another and you are amazed that two fingers easily fit into your asshole.

When I tire of that play, I pull out, inject more lube up your ass with a lube shooter then continue to open you up with the Hitachi Magic Wand with P-Spot adaptor. You gasp as the fullness enters you. Your cock springs to attention as I slowly begin to pump your ass with it. I turn it on low and you moan with pleasure, dripping pre-cum onto the towel I placed under you so my furniture will not get soiled.

You are now writhing with pleasure and dripping like crazy, I turn the vibrator on high and I think you will jump out of your skin. Such intense sensations! When I am not using both hands to pump you with the wand I slap your ass. “Yes,” you whisper with each slap of my hand.

“Are you ready slut?” I ask you when I turn off the vibe. “Yes Mistress,” you mumble.

“What are you ready for? I ask you.

“I am ready for you to make me your bitch.”

I have you help me put on my cock. I pull you back onto your knees and I have you suck it like the silly slut you are. Soon, you are deep throating it, looking up into my eyes with adoration as saliva slides out of the side of your mouth.

Seeing you like this pleases me. My pussy is wet and I am turned on. I reach out and slap your cheek. It takes you by surprise, but you smile.

“Back on your knees bitch.” I order and again you are sprawled out on the green couch.

I stand up and slide my long, thin dong inside you. We both moan with delight and I begin to fuck your ass the way I want my pussy fucked. Long, slow and hard, teasing you with the tip, never quite going all the way down, teasing you until suddenly you feel the full length of me deep inside you.

Now I begin to pump you harder. “I want to hear it,” I say as I grab your hips and ram your tight ass.

“I am your bitch Mistress.” Your voice is muffled as your face is in the seat of the couch.

I grab your shoulder with one hand, and the collar by the other and yank you up.

“Do you like being treated like a slut?” I ask you as I bite your ear.

“I do Mistress, I am a dirty slut. I am your slut,” You say, and I respond with a firm slap on your ass with my hand.

You are overcome. Drool spills out of your mouth, your cock drips pre-cum you moan and breathe deep and hard. Do you like the feeling of the dong up your ass, or do you like the situation of being fucked hard by a powerful woman, the role reversal? You are unsure what to think, but you do know you like being used for my pleasure. And I am very well pleased.

You are now mine. My bitch, my slut, my plaything. I plan on using you often.

Somewhere Over ( or under or around) the Rainbow! More Sluttiness at Mistress J’s

Posted on September 13, 2016 by Mistress J

Judy Garland once sang:

“Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dreamed of
Once in a lullaby…”

Many pervs dream of rainbows and butterflies, and here at Mistress J Studios in San Jose, California, I work hard at making those dreams come true. This Mistress likes pretty things, and nothing is prettier than a rainbow.

Crossing the rainbow bridge took on a new meaning!

When I came across this beautiful rainbow cock I couldn’t resist buying it. Created this year in honor of the Pride celebrations that take place across the country, I figured this would add a festive touch to my dong collection. I quickly learned the segmented colors are not only pleasing to look at, but serve a very interesting purpose.

Proudly standing at 8 inches of colorful fun, this cock is sure to please. One of the things I like about it is that it reminds me of a roll of LifeSavers® candy. Debuting in 1935, these hard to melt goodies have been making mouths water for 81 years. That’s a Hole Lot of Fun!

Speaking of mouth watering, I know MY mouth waters when I see a client eagerly sucking this rainbow bridge, hoping to please his mistress.

How low can you go?

Another fun aspect of the cock is using the colors as a measuring tool for deep throating. So far nobody has gotten past mid-orange.

The top of the yellow is four inches deep, the top of the green is two. Really folks, what’s a couple of inches between friends? I’d really like to see a slut take it deep into the yellow/top of the green for me. If someone can do that, they will get a very special prize.

Don’t worry, there are even more fun fruit flavors here at the studio!

The Candy Man once sang:

“Who can take a rainbow
Wrap it in a sigh?”

“Double your pleasure, double your fun”

I don’t think you will be sighing if I wrap your cock in my colorful Gates of Hell! Another special Pride edition toy, this one lives up to its name.

I like to think of the Gates of Hell as ‘a colorful ring, for your ding-a-ling‘! Ha ha, I crack myself up…

The website Kinkly describes the Gates of Hell: “The Gates of Hell is a male chastity device that gets its name from constraining the male penis when it is erect. The rings limit how big the penis can grow. It is called the Gates of Hell because it constrains the male erection in a state of pleasure.

Consisting of 3-7 rings. The first two rings constrict the penis and the testicles while the rest of the rings secure the penis in place. All of these rings are attached to a leather strap. By restricting the penis into a confined space, it causes the male penis to become extremely engorged, but difficult for him to ejaculate.”

I find it interesting that the colors for the balls are blue! ha ha.

As you can see, visiting Mistress J is like getting a taste of the tropics!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

All Wrapped Up and No Place to Go.

Posted on June 1, 2016 by Mistress J

all wrapped up For some, the ultimate way to surrender is tight bondage. The feeling of complete immobility due to a tight wrapping of plastic wrap, rope or chains gives a feeling of helplessness that can be quite appealing to a busy individual. With all control and decision taken away, there is no other choice but to submit.

Those tight restraints, whatever they may be, can feel like a pair of warm arms wrapping the receiver in a comforting embrace. Those who enjoy bondage, like that feeling. For them, it is safe and secure.

Most of my clients are men. I live and work in Silicon Valley, which has a high stress work environment for most. I am proud to say my personal work environment is not stressful (for me anyway) and the only office politics I have to deal with involve my cats. The tech environment is practically nonstop, very competitive with lots of male posturing going on. With all this pressure, there needs to be release.

This client wanted his head and tummy free.

Bondage alters the balance of power. A stronger partner can be rendered helpless, which in itself is an unusual experience for most men, being rendered helpless by a woman. A naturally active individual is made passive, forced to be still. Not being able to move is an unusual experience for most of us. Those that like it, CRAVE it. It concentrates the mind in a unique way. The experience can also be very meditative, after all, what else can you do when you are tightly wrapped and lying down?

Mistress J is rather fond of using plastic wrap, duct tape and bondage tape. After a discussion with my client I become aware of what areas he might not want wrapped. I always oblige, I want him as comfortable as possible.

Some folks are claustrophobic and don’t want a hood. Others may have tummy issues and need a bare midriff. Some might want their hands and feet free, while other wish them tightly bound. Sexy parts can be left open, the face. nipples, genitals, knee caps, etc. Those areas, if negotiated and agreed upon, can be used for my pleasure and his or her torment.

Sarge is admiring the German flag made out of duct tape.

One of my favorite bondage buddies loves being wrapped in plastic wrap, then likes the added hold of duct tape. This type of session allows me to do artistic tape work. The man in question is German, so I used this opportunity to demonstrate my flag making skills with duct on his back. My cat Sarge inspected my work and gave his meow of approval.

One small step for man…

It is very important that the Domme never leave a wrapped up person alone. I called my other German friend Helga to help me watch my bound Deutsche friend. She was thrilled to help and wore her favorite dirndl in honor of the occasion. It isn’t very often she gets to use a German man as a footrest! Sarge quickly discovered a new resting place, and hunkered down for a nap.

Since I get a lot of requests for this type of session, I wanted to see what all the fuss was about and had a friend wrap me. I am claustrophobic, and could not wear a hood without hyperventilating so we settled on a face mask.

I did enjoy the wrapping and resting. I relaxed until I had to use the facilities, then was quickly cut out and released. Note: One should have an empty bladder before being wrapped.

Miss J wants to see what all the bondage fuss is about,

An advantage to tape bondage is the quick cutting with safety shears. My client emerges much like a butterfly out of the cocoon.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination and being wrapped in tape, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you.

Such Exquisite Torture! A session with a masochist…

Posted on May 10, 2016 by Mistress J

Allen* came over one sunny afternoon. He is a long time client here at Mistress J’s. Lately he has been craving some serious humiliation, degradation and even a little pain. What’s funny about Allen is he started off here as a sensual massage client. Now he is a hard-core pervy pain slut and I am constantly thinking of fun new ways in which to torture his ass. (among other things)

Allen was ordered to strip and wait for me in the dungeon. I was excited to use my three new ceiling hooks that Ryan hung when he lost that bet. I also had a few other surprises in store for him.

I chained these balls to the wall.

I know he is as fond of receiving CBT as I am of giving it. I have a few fun penis devices, but the problem is, Allen’s balls are rather large. It makes it difficult for me to wrap such devices around them so modifications are usually made. I knew he’d enjoy my spiky cock parachute, but also knew he wouldn’t be able to wear it the traditional way, wrapped around his balls and hanging downward. Instead, I wrapped it around his large cock and he had the thrill of experiencing a hundred little cat claws digging into his manhood!

I added a weight to the parachute so he could feel a nice swing when he moved. I took a chain and secured it to the wall. Poor Allen had to endure the entire session standing up, but that was by design, I wanted access to all the good parts.

Tryin’a break the chains but the chains only break me**

I went about blindfolding and restraining him to the ceiling with cuffs and chains. Mistress J is really digging the new hooks. I took out my trusty anal hook, wrapped a rubber around it and lubed it up. I slowly inserted it into Allen’s butt. His growing excitement was evident despite wearing a tight, prickly parachute on his ding-dong.

Feeling owned and controlled, Allen hung his head and leaned on the long dangling chains for support. He had no choice but to submit. I took out my electric gloves and ran them all over his body, administering sweet shocks in the most private of places. At times, I spanked his firm little arse with my favorite paddle. He let out grateful yelps.

Poor Allen. This man comes here on his lunch hour to be treated like a dirty rag. How dare Mistress J do this to him?!?

Well, I aim to please.

This man had a bit more “treatment” to endure. I took my little footstool and sat down. I lubed up my new anal speculum and switched the hook for the speculum because someone needed to be stretched for something bigger.

The metal was a little cold, and Allen let out a shiver as it slid into his behind. I took my time and slid it in and out several times before opening it up. Allen sighed with pleasure as the speculum gently pried open his anus. I secured the latch and let him enjoy the feeling of the pressure the instrument gave to his inner butt hole. I enjoyed this part of the session. Not many men get to feel the enjoyment of a speculum, at least not as often as women. I felt like a doctor indeed and wished I had a white lab coat.

Ride, Sally ride…

Feeling he was ready for the last part of my evil plans, I took out my harness and gave Allen what he came for; hard, forceful pegging! I took a photo of me riding his ass, which I did for 20 minutes. Do you feel sorry for him? I don’t. This man was getting what he deserved, and more!

So, Allen endured what I gave him, and when it was over, quickly devoured a bottle of water. He took a shower and came downstairs on shaky legs.

“That was a quick hour Mistress, thank you.” he said as he took leave of me.

I know he will be back soon.

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

*Name changed to protect the innocent. **From Nick Jonas “Chains”.

Spring Time is Swing Time! A New Item at Mistress J’s.

Posted on April 10, 2016 by Mistress J

Ryan lost a bet.

We were racing our turtles, and his lost, so he had to be my kinky handyman in the playroom. I had a fabulous new toy, so I gladly put him to work.

Stud finder. Enough said.

Ryan had to hang my new sex swing. I like my handymen to wear a specific uniform (nekkid), which he enthusiastically changed in to. He grabbed his tools and set about finding a strong ceiling beam to attach it to.

Ryan gave a new meaning to the term stud finder, pun intended. He found a support beam and picked a place on the ceiling. Up it went. Next, we had to test it out.

Who better to test out the swing than the man who put it up? I put his naked ass into the swing and blindfolded him. I spun him around and we laughed as his feet hit my closet, Ryan is pretty tall. He hopped out and I put him on his tummy facing downward.

In this position, I simulated pegging him. We noticed his head was really close to the wall. I swung him back and forth, and if I did it vigorously, he would bang his head on the wall! This was not good.

I told Ryan he had to fix this problem and find a new place to hang the swing. I was irritated about this, and decided on a suitable punishment for putting an unwanted hole in the ceiling.

New spot found and tested. Now, on to the punishment!

I’ll turn you into a humble man…

I cuffed Ryan to the cross and had him bend over. I grabbed his cock and balls and pulled them backwards, a little rope isolated his balls. Next, I grabbed a few dowels and rubber bands and made a homemade humbler.

He needed to be humbled for his error. Ryan is a good handyman, but in the past has made a few mistakes in my playroom. He needed to think long and hard about these blunders. Bad Ryan!

Goodness gracious, great balls of fire!

I flogged Ryan’s back and used my cat claws on delicate areas. The problem with this punishment was, well, he enjoyed it. How was he ever going to learn?

“Get down on all fours.” I ordered, He complied.

I rather like predicaments, so I put him in one. And it was a dandy. Anal hook inserted and fastened to the wall, hands cuffed behind back, head resting on the floor. Next, a little foot torture. I hoped he was learning the error of his ways.

I quickly got the impression he liked where my feet were. Let’s just say Ryan was rising to the occasion! This was a very stubborn man who was not feeling remorse for anything.

I got out my cane and swatted his bottom. “Repent!” I yelled.

Ten, eleven, twelve hard strokes. Finally a whimper escaped his mouth. Three more firm wacks to make sure. Satisfied he was going to be more careful next time he worked for me, I released him.

“Forgive me Mistress, for I have sinned.” Ryan said.

I decided to forgive him and we made an appointment for following week to hang my new blinds.

If you are curious about my swing, flogging, caning and my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com. I am in San Jose, California. I look forward to hearing from you. 408-896-5836.

Mistress J Studios

Delightfully Dominant Diva

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