Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

A Tale of Two Sissies

Actually, it was one sissy, but she saw me twice.

Someone is happy to see me.

Tiffany was trapped inside of a young, Asian male’s body. She longed for freedom, but lacked a safe place for expression. Tiffany had never sucked cock, but wanted to. She had never been pounded up the ass, but desired it. Tiffany had never worn stockings, heels or lingerie and cried herself to sleep for longing

Then one day, while visiting San Jose, she called Mistress J Studios. Mistress J invited her over they had fun together. Tiffany tried on some lacy undies and a bra. She walked in heels for the first time, stumbling only once.

Tiffany went through a strict training regimen. First, she had to warm up her throat on a series of rubber dongs. I stick them on a mirror and it become my glory hole. The slut kneeled down and worked the cocks well. Each time she went a little deeper and after mastering one cock, she moved on to a bigger one.

After the cock sucking, it was time to work on the clit and pussy.I like to have my sluts wear open crotch panties. That way I have access to the goods and the lingerie can stay on. The sissy’s boy clit (cock) and boy pussy (ass) gets a good workout, and she remains feminine.

She leaned against the cross facing me first. I slapped her clitty and pinched her nipples. Other types of play occurred, and after a while, she was instructed to turn around and present her pussy to me. She complied, and enjoyed a series of swats, pinches and floggings on her butt and back.

Finally, it was time for anal/pussy training. Spread out and chained pussy up on the floor she eagerly awaited my gloved fingers. After getting her tight hole a little looser, she was begging for more.

I won’t go into any more sordid details, but Tiffany got the training she needed. She was filled to the brim and went home a satisfied lady.

But wait, there’s more!  

Business brought the slut back to the bay Area and she continued with her training. A full makeover took place and I decided

Three cheers for the red, white and blue!

to dress her up like a trashy girl. She was also treated like one.  It sure is fun watching these girls blossom and spread their, um, wings.

Tiffany showed her true colors, taking it like a champ. She is a patriotic princess and believes in the freedom to be a slut!

If you have a hidden sissy and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

A Few More (new) Things…

Talk about Spring Cleaning!

I thought I’d use the first day of summer to talk about all the spring changes I made here at my humble abode. The condo was painted from top to bottom. New carpeting was installed on the stairs, landing and my bedroom. Now the best part: Laminate Flooring!

The entire downstairs and my playroom boast beautiful Pergo floors. It’s so pretty and durable. I invite you to come and book a session to see them in person!

Here is a pano shot of my playroom: 

X marks the spot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cross has been re-stained and is now mounted on the wall. It opens the floor quite a bit and creates a nice focal point.

 

A friend bought me a leather sling for my birthday. I have been wanting one forever, and now I have one! Let me know if you wanna take a ride! 

 

sling-a-ding-ding

 

 

 

 

 

I’m so happy with my updated space. I think you’ll like it too. As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

A Mistress Among Many. Miss J Went to DomCon LA!

Last month, I attended DomCon in LA. It was a birthday gift to myself, as I have always wanted to attend. DomCon was celebrating it’s 15th anniversary, and it was the weekend after my birthday, so it seemed like a good sign I should attend. I was only there for the weekend, from May 11-13, but the convention runs for a whole week.

I have attended many kink events here in the Bay Area. Many have been FemmeDomme oriented and others mixed energy. As a female dominant, I enjoy events with strong female energy, and while this was an event for both female and male dominants, there was LOTS of fabulous FemmeDomme energy swirling around. DomCon is an event for professionals and lifestyle enthusiasts alike, and was started by Mistress Cyan. You can read the history of DomCon here.

One of my favorite activities was sitting in the hotel lobby watching the non-kinky folk stare at the convention attendees gathered in the lobby. Folks were dressed in their finest leather, rubber, vinyl, lacy, black red, BDSM outfits. The actual convention area was blocked off and had security, but us kinksters enjoyed the lobby and restaurants as well.

It was very empowering for me to be at an event with such a strong female dominant presence, and one that acknowledged the legitimacy of professional domination. I enjoyed being a part of the Dominant women who strutted about, using their sexuality as a possible weapon and not getting punished for it I loved seeing Dommes of ALL ages being trailed by their submissives, especially the male ones. No catcalls, no grabbing, just being admired.

It’s also a gender fluid environment. I liked seeing altar egos or true genders embraced and on display as some people born with boy parts freely exhibited their feminine side and wore dresses in PUBLIC! There was even a cross-dressing pageant hosted by Alice in Bondageland. My sissy had broken out in hives, so we didn’t compete this year.

To be able to do this and not get harassed is something many cis-gendered white men cannot appreciate. They take this freedom for granted. I felt at this convention, the playing field was even, if not reversed. And it was FUN!

Shopping:

The shopping was fantastic and I bought a few things in the incredible vendor area. I love new things!

The soft green flogger is from Bunny Flogger. This one is so much fuller and heavier than my previous one. It has such a nice swing to it and throws nicely. This is perfect for sensual play.

I call the red thing my Dragon’s Tongue. It can provide a sensual little lick with the tip or provide a stingy swat. It depends on my mood. This was purchased from Agreeable Agony, and it was exactly what I was looking for to add to my tools.    

Another thing at the Agreeable Agony booth caught my eye. These beautiful soy candles in the glass pitcher. I have a few friends that like wax play and these keep Mistress J’s fingers from getting burned. They also clean up nicely.

Leather by Danny had these cute little CBT boards. I really like this because the cock stays in place and I can torment it any way I like. I was being nice here, I used a shoe lace. But for really bad boys, I have some scratchy twine that will feel great on those tender parts.

Intrigued? Contact me. I’d love to use my new toys on you!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

May is My Birthday Month. Read Some Birthday Porn.

This is a made up fantasy. A product of my deviant and dirty mind. Enjoy.

(This is not offered in a session pervs, please don’t ask.)

 

Another year passes, time to add another candle to the cake!

My slut knows I enjoy my birthday, and that I enjoy presents. The slut arrives at my house, wearing a  trench coat and a very strategically placed big red bow and nothing else.

At my nod he drops the coat and kneels in the middle of the living room. I am wearing a black see-through lace chemise without panties and silver stilettos. I slowly circle the boy, caressing his shoulders. I am wet with anticipation of unwrapping my gift. I notice the bow has moved and seems to be sticking further out. I tell him to kiss my feet and he obeys.

I lay the boy on his back and place a thin pillow under his head and a thicker one under his pelvis. Then, I tie his arms to the TV cabinet and his legs to the feet of the couch. He is a perfect starfish. Open, vulnerable and helpless.

I crouch over him and the slut gets a nice view of my creamy pussy. I decide I want some nice oral worship so I ride my sluts face. I alternate between smothering him and allowing him to fully taste and lick me. At intervals, I order him to gently bite and suck on my lips and penetrate me with his tongue.

The slut’s bow is standing at attention and I slide off his face and give him a good slap on the cock. I love the way his body twitches when I slap him.

I strap a chin dildo on this face then climb back on, taking my fill and pleasure on the large dildo. He squirms, being so close, but yet so far away from the prize he was so recently worshiping. I can tell he wants my lips back on his face. But I let him suffer as I fuck his face.

Wanting more, I slide off and rip off the purple bow. I slap his cock a few more times and it becomes super hard and red, dripping with white pre-cum that slides down to his balls. I am now hungry for my man’s meat, so I slowly impale him with my wet pussy. We both gasp with pleasure at that first touch. I love being in control of my fuck toy and I use him with pleasure and gusto.

I alternate between riding him slow and deep then hard and fast. His hips thrust wildly, the only movement his body can make. I keep him on the edge, when I feel him getting close, I slow down, or slap his face. I use him.

He is my gift, my present, and it is my birthday. It is all about me taking my pleasure how I see fit and I ride him until I come. I come hard and it drips down his cock forming a puddle at the base.

He wants to come, but I don’t let him. He whimpers in pleasure and pain at being denied. He loves to be used by me. He is just my pleasure object and he knows it.

I got what I wanted on my birthday. I got my bitch. 😉

How Liberating! Hands free pleasure at the studio.

Mistress J is all about multi-tasking. So any devices that can help her do two things at once, or sit back and enjoy a show are always welcomed.

Recently, Texas Tim gifted me with the Liberator Wanda Magic Toy Mount, The Wand Essentials Strap Cap and the Wand Essentials Passion Pillow Wand Harness from Amazon. We had fun with the Liberator during our session. 

Texas Tim has become a huge ass slut and I was determined to break in my new toys. Using the strap cap, I attached a nice sized dildo to my Lelo Cordless Wand.

Now I was ready to have some fun. At the appropriate time, the Texas slut presented his ass to me and I used the wand on him. The girth and curvature of the dong allowed me to keep it vibrating in his ass hands free and allowed me to prepare other delights, such as my strap on.

After pounding him with my strap on cocks, I decided he needed to entertain me. After all, he’s here for MY amusement, not the other way around. 

He was instructed to straddle the Liberator complete with ass wand and ride it, Tim willingly complied.  He squatted over the Liberator and his hole slowly swallowed the purple dildo. The firm foam allowed Tim to gyrate to his specifications, becoming an enabler of his pleasure.

I sat on the couch and watched.

I pointed the wand this way and that,  alternating his positions as he sat this way and that.

I think he enjoyed it best when he straddled it while facing the smaller side of the pillow. His ass and his legs got a bit of a workout! Later, he told me he really enjoyed the Liberator and it might have been his favorite thing that day.

Next time, I will use the Liberator with my Hitachi Wand with P-Spot adapter on him and see how well that is received. I also have the sex stool, which in combination to the above could relieve leg fatigue. Hmmmm….

The Liberator can be used for a woman’s pleasure too. In fact, I think that was the original intent, but Miss J is a naughty thing. 

Mistress J’s Desire:     

This could be me with you watching.

I have the desire to restrain a slut and force him to watch me pleasure myself with my Lelo. I’ll be comfortable perched on the Liberator and can ride it how I see fit. Ah, the agony!

Here is a caveat. Please DO NOT ask (or beg) for this particular scenario. It is for me to decide if and when I want to  do it. If you ask, it will not happen. No exceptions, not even hints or references.

If it happens, it will be a surprise.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

Having a Ball!

 

Twist and shout

Bollocks! Mistress J loves to play with balls. They swing and bounce, they are fun to poke and prod and even twist! As my plaything, I get to do what I want to you. Instead of grabbing a fistful of dollars, I often will grab a fistful of balls!

Ball play is fun because it doesn’t need to be extreme, so everyone can enjoy. I grab both balls in one hand, pull them away from the body and twist. By keeping them together, there is no pain. Now, if you are craving a little pain, let me know and I’ll accommodate you!

twinkle toes

 When things start to get serious in a session, I’ll take off my shoes. Now My toes can join in the fun! My toes like the feel of balls. I like to step on them, grab the ball sack with my cute little toes and pull. My visitor enjoys looking at my manicured feet playing with his privates. Sometimes, I’ll even give the hair a little tug.

In some cases, I don’t want you looking at me.  When that happens, I turn you to the wall and go to town on the back of the balls! Poor baby…

 

Ouch!

For more extreme play and discipline, I’ll bring out my parachute that has little pins on the inside. The cute little chains that hang down are not only decorative, but serve a purpose. I can hang weights from them! And, as you can imagine, I have several.

For some reason, my male friends tend to walk on their tippy toes when this thing is dangling from the family jewels. Why is that?

The ice is right!

Things often get pretty heated here during a session with me. Have no fear, I have a simple remedy; a nice cold ice bag! This makes me smile just thinking about using it!

I get a lot of gratification playing with the gonads. This blog post only showcases a small sampling of the fun we can have together, so I suggest booking a session as soon as possible!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Mistress J Goes on a Photo Shoot!

Today (May 6) is my birthday! And, my gift to you is a link to my photo session and a description of my experience!

I bought  Groupon for Krazy Zexy. I remember Kamran from when we were both in the wedding photography business. I knew he was a great shooter and had been doing boudoir photography for a while. I think by looking at his website, you see how good he is with posing and lighting. He is also very good at capturing the smoldering sexy woman lying just below the surface, a skill you don’t learn in school, but are born with.

Kamran recognized me when I emailed him and I told him these were business photographs and I was now a Bondassage practitioner. We had an email consultation about outfits and accessories and planned a date.

I was told to expect to be at the studio for about 3 hours. I arrived at 9 am on a Monday and had professional hair and makeup done. That was about an hour and a half. Then I sat a bit with Kamran.

This is when I was pulled out of my comfort zone. You see, Mistress J is used to being in charge. She is in charge of her sessions (as you all know). Even when she ran her vanilla photo business she was in charge. But here, I had to turn myself over to someone else and that’s a bit tough.

It started out like on of my sessions. He had me sit down and asked ME questions! Can you believe it?  Questions about my work, personal life, how Mistress J came about, what did I want to convey, what were my hard limits and safe words.

After what felt like an hour of questions, but what was really only 15 minutes, we began to do the photos. This was the fun and the hard part. Hard because I was on the other side of the lens. I had to hold the uncomfortable poses. I was the one insecure about my short legs and such. But it was also fun being the center of attention. I got to be elegant and fancy. It was all about me I was the receiver and not the giver. This was exciting and new, and also a little uncomfortable, as I am most comfortable giving.

I got to experience what my long time client Frank experienced during his first of three photo shoots with me. I got to be the model. I was put on display and admired, and my hair looked good too, how fun is that!

The shoot went longer than three hours, almost five. I guess Mistress J is a muse for many, and Kamran was so caught up in me that we went over. 

Here is one of my favorite images from the shoot. I think it captures my sassy and playful side, don’t you? 

Enjoy the gift of looking at me today. I hope to hear from you soon.

Mistress J

 

Cock-A-Doodle-Do! A girl wears a ding-a-ling and the boys like it!

roosterMistress J loves being a woman. She likes her lady parts and her curves. She likes seeing men drool at her juicy ass and perky breasts. She appreciates the gift of multiple orgasms and her power of seduction over men.

But once in a while, or several times a week, as is the case here at the studio, a tool she wasn’t born with must be employed.

That tool is the rubber cock. 

I will now use this opportunity to switch from the third to first person. 

straponMost of my clients like seeing me wearing a cock and using it in some way.  I might be forcing it down their throat or sliding it up their ass. Either way, the sight of me in my strap-on literally and figuratively brings them to their knees! 

Let’s talk about boys who like to suck a girl’s cock.

Since I am happy being a strong, powerful woman, I can honestly say I do not suffer from penis envy. THAT is reserved for my clients. They envy women who can strap it on and give it to a man in his mouth. 

I enjoy making a guy choke on it, watching the drool and snot come out of his nose as he swallows my tool. I like hearing the sloppy sounds as he devours dick like it was a deliciously decadent dessert.

 I especially like seeing a blow job virgin stare at the large willy in front of him, eyes wide with fear and doubt, wondering how he can manage it.

“Suck it up buttercup.” I tell him. 

He struggles against a firm hand holding his head and forcing it down deep, my fingers buried in his hair.  He experiences his gag reflex hitting the large object on the back of his throat. He feels the humiliation of drool dripping down his face and the difficulty to breathe as his nose becomes clogged with his own mucus as he fights to master the member. 

Speaking of blow job virgins, I remember the fist time I had Allen* suck my rainbow bridge. I wrote about Allen last year, remember him? He started off so innocent, but quickly wanted more and more. One day, I told him he was going to suck cock. I stuck my rainbow beauty on the mirror and had him sit on the stool in front of it. He stared at it for a long time. He was scared, perhaps even a little angry Mistress J would demand such disgusting things of him. 

Jumbo size. How do you guys walk around with these things?

Super Size it! How do you guys walk around with these things?

After looking at it and breathing deeply for about 3 minutes he began to pleasure the rainbow. As his throat opened up, he warmed up to my cock. Deeper and deeper it went. Soon, he was sucking like a well seasoned pro! I think he was hoping to reach the pot of gold at the end of that rainbow!

He liked it so much, one day he asked me to don my biggest dick and make him pleasure it. And pleasure it he did! And after he was done, his reward was to take photos of me in my big brown cock!

I have a variety of sizes to satisfy all my clients. I like to be able to cater to the newbie as well as seasoned cock suckers. IMG_20160216_164039298The photo on the right is a small sampling of what I have to chew on here in the studio. I’m confident I have something just your size…

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about cock sucking & my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*name changed to protect the not so innocent.

 

No cocks were harmed in the making of this blog.

Somewhere Over ( or under or around) the Rainbow! More Sluttiness at Mistress J’s

Judy Garland once sang:

“Somewhere over the rainbow
Way up high
And the dreams that you dreamed of
Once in a lullaby…”

Many pervs dream of rainbows and butterflies, and here at Mistress J Studios in San Jose, California, I work hard at making those dreams come true. This Mistress likes pretty things, and nothing is prettier than a rainbow.

8-inches-of-fun

Crossing the rainbow bridge took on a new meaning!

When I came across this beautiful rainbow cock I couldn’t resist buying it. Created this year in honor of the Pride celebrations that take place across the country, I figured this would add a festive touch to my dong collection. I quickly learned the segmented colors are not only pleasing to look at, but serve a very interesting purpose.

Proudly standing at 8 inches of colorful fun, this cock is sure to please. One of the things I like about it is that it reminds me of a roll of LifeSavers® candy. Debuting in 1935, these hard to melt goodies have been making mouths water for 81 years. That’s a Hole Lot of Fun!

Speaking of mouth watering, I know MY mouth waters when I see a client eagerly sucking this rainbow bridge, hoping to please his mistress.

 

How low can you go?

How low can you go?

Another fun aspect of the cock is using the colors as a measuring tool for deep throating. So far nobody has gotten past mid-orange.

The top of the yellow is four inches deep, the top of the green is two. Really folks, what’s a couple of inches between friends? I’d really like to see a slut take it deep into the yellow/top of the green for me. If someone can do that, they will get a very special prize.

 

Don’t worry, there are even more fun fruit flavors here at the studio! 

The Candy Man once sang:

“Who can take a rainbow 
Wrap it in a sigh?”

"Double your pleasure, double your fun"

“Double your pleasure, double your fun”

I don’t think you will be sighing if I wrap your cock in my colorful Gates of Hell! Another special Pride edition toy, this one lives up to its name.

I like to think of the Gates of Hell as ‘a colorful ring, for your ding-a-ling‘! Ha ha, I crack myself up…

The website Kinkly describes the Gates of Hell: “The Gates of Hell is a male chastity device that gets its name from constraining the male penis when it is erect. The rings limit how big the penis can grow. It is called the Gates of Hell because it constrains the male erection in a state of pleasure.

Consisting of 3-7 rings. The first two rings constrict the penis and the testicles while the rest of the rings secure the penis in place. All of these rings are attached to a leather strap. By restricting the penis into a confined space, it causes the male penis to become extremely engorged, but difficult for him to ejaculate.”

I find it interesting that the colors for the balls are blue!  ha ha.

As you can see, visiting Mistress J is like getting a taste of the tropics!

Intrigued? Contact me.

If you are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.