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Feeling Groovy. Let’s talk about Elysium®.

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“In Greek mythology, only those specially favored by the gods entered Elysium and were made immortal …”

 -Encyclopedia Britannica

How slow can you go? That’s what Elysium is about.

The slow sensual touch of my hand, the silky feeling of my soft fluffy tools, a feather running across your skin. You are tied to my table, blindfolded and are wearing headphones. You cannot see or hear what will happen next…

Elysium focuses the senses, alternating soft brush strokes, excruciatingly slow bodywork and expert caresses with soft, silk bondage, and sensory focusing tools. Elysium brings you the ultimate sensual experience, and is the  ultimate test of self control.

Time is suspended. Soft music plays through the headphones. My touch matches the beat of the music. You are my captive, yet, you are not afraid. You know you can trust me and surrender to my lead.

 

“Slow down, you move too fast. You got to make the morning last.”*

 

What is that? You shiver as an ice cube teases your nipple and slowly makes its way down to your crotch. Warm oil surrounds your cock in a gentle, yet firm grip. You want to move, but cannot. How wonderful for you to have to lie there and take what Mistress gives.

The warm oil feels delicious. Her fingers seem to find every neglected place on your body. She touches your lingam sooooo slowly. It’s agonizing and fulfilling at the same time.

Wait a minute. Is Mistress J grabbing my balls with her toes? That feels great! You never knew you could last this long.

Uh oh, you are edging.You might explode. She backed off a bit. Whew, you can take more exquisite torture. For now…

More oil, more slow caresses, more sensation play. The pressure builds and subsides again and again. Until finally, bliss.

You really do feel like a god. 

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

*”The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin‘ Groovy)”, a by Simon & Garfunkel;

CBT means your cock belongs to ME!

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Mistress J picked a pack of pickled peckers!

When you enter the doors of Mistress J’s studio, you have agreed to become my plaything. What does Mistress like best? You guessed it, your penis.

Call it whatever you like; a cock, dick, boy clit, etc, the fact is, I get to play with it.  You have very little choice in the matter.

CBT (cock, ball torture) can be a hard, ball busting experience, but it can also be soft and sensual. It depends on the guest’s preference. Let’s talk tough today, I’m in a mood.

By now I am sure you are wondering what evil plans might Mistress J have for your manhood. Here are a few examples from very satisfied guests.

Chastity is a common fantasy, but few dare to explore the ultimate “mind” control. That’s right, men think with their dicks. I’ll cage your brain and  reduce you to quivering flesh. You’ll love the feeling of your arousal pressing against the steel or plastic cage, unable to grow. You can’t touch it. It frustrates you. I laugh and torment it as much as I like.

I like to grab things with my toes, and balls are the perfect size for grabbing and pulling.

Then, we have those cocks that need to be beaten into submission. A few firm wacks often do the trick. Did you know that there are a few men out there that get so aroused by penis smacking, they actually edge! Edging, in case you didn’t know, is when someone gets close to climax.

You won’t be board if your penis is on board!

I have many tools for penis smacking. Those include my hands, various paddles and floggers, and to provide support for all this, I have my penis board! It holds your member in place and I can smack away! 

One of the cruelest toys, and a personal favorite is my parachute. This leather beauty has tiny silver spikes on the inside. It fastens around the balls and pulls them down. Imagine a hundred little cat claws grabbing onto your balls! Such pleasurable pain!

Now, to add insult to injury, I have a few weights to add to the chains on the parachute. Why weight? It feels good! Don’t wait to try the parachute. 

Hair clips and clothespins are FANTASTIC CBT tools. I picked up these hand painted beauties in Poland and use them often. When I use the whole set it looks like a smile.

Wanna put a smile on my face? Book a session with me and let me play with your family jewels!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Why is a Sensual Massage by Mistress J so Sensational?

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Sensual massage is one of my specialties. I love doing it, because I personally LOVE sensation play! I love receiving, and love giving. For folks not into BDSM, pegging, femminization or any of the rougher stuff,  sensual massage is a fabulous way to surrender and connect with me.

I set the stage with soft scent, candles and music. You start face down and I slowly warm up your body with soft touch. I might use feathers, a fur mitt, or silky fabric to get the goosebumps going.

I tickle the inside of your arm, along your side, behind the knee. Your erogenous zones are fair game, and I make use of them.

I use the music as a tool, using the beats and cadence to match what I am doing to your body. Even though this is a softer, sensual massage, I am in control, and guide you the whole time. I love to play, and you are my favorite plaything. 

Slowly I start to massage you with warm oil. Your legs, feet back, shoulders and buttocks get massaged. as I feel you sink further into surrender, I do my exquisite body glides. My curvy body is on top of you, and I slip and slide.

Then, I turn you over, and do it all again. Perhaps I start to incorporate something a bit more prickly? The wheel is fun, and sends shivers down your spine. A combination of heat and ice in exciting places makes you gasp with pleasure!

More warm oil, more body to body contact. Finally, a sublime ending.

Surrender never felt so good…

We can add a twist to this and tie you up!  An even deeper experience is Bondassage.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

 

 

 

 

Slut Tiffany Returns for More Torture.

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Tiffany keeps coming back. This East Coast slut always visits me when she’s in town on business.

I met her at her hotel on Friday evening to dress her for our shopping trip. I had purchased little red pegging panties for her and I was very excited to see them on her. I had a remote controlled vibrating butt plug, a chastity cage, and a shopping list! 

Mistress J prepares Tiffany’s ass for shopping in San Jose!

After saying our hellos, I bent her over the bed and lubed her up, gave her a quick warm-up and slid in the butt plug. She said it was VERY full. I shoved her boy clit into the chastity cage, and we went back to the Hustler Store. For some reason, Tiffany was walking funny in the hallway. Was it because her junk was imprisoned and she had a large bulb in her butt? I don’t know. I do know, she opted to take the stairs rather than the elevator, so it must have felt good!

We shopped at Tiffany’s favorite store where she bought a few outfits and a hood to make videos. I intermittently turned the butt plug on and off, and she was enjoying our game.

I sent her home with some tasks to complete before our 10:30 am appointment Saturday morning.  The tasks were to record herself doing the following things:

1. Tiffany, you are instructed to give a lesson on anal training.

  • Make sure your red panties get some screen time.
  • Use white board to prepare an outline/and or diagrams or tips. Erase board when necessary.
  • Use rubbers on dildos
  • Grading will be on ability to convey an idea.

2. Demonstrate how you can ride a dildo  Play “Mustang Sally” as you gyrate on the dildo. Sing along during the chorus. Grading will be on vocal talent and riding ability.

3. At 11 pm, record yourself writing 50 times “I’m a big whore and like to choke on cocks.” Grading is on neatness, legibility, uniform writing and overall presentation. Provide a shot of the clock.

4. At midnight, record yourself inserting ice cubes in ass. Provide a shot of the clock. Extra points will be given if you can insert more than 10.

5. In the morning record yourself putting on your dainty things under your street clothes. Take a shower with provided feminine smelling soap. Use soap all weekend. Have breakfast downstairs or outside with lingerie on under clothes. 

6. Sleep in chastity. Arrive with butt plug in place.

7. Wear pegging panties under street clothes all weekend, and fly home in them.

Grading:

Anal stuff: Tiffany did a great job explaining the anal training and riding the dildo. I personally felt she didn’t sing loud enough during the chorus of Mustang Sally, so points were deducted. Also, she was a little off key…

Ice cubes: Major points were deducted because she was unable to insert ice cubes in her ass. She said the shape wasn’t conducive to sliding in, or some baloney like that. A backup activity of an oral sex demonstration on a dildo was provided, and I must say, she did a good job with that and provided interesting camera angles.

Mistress J makes sub give a BJ in San Jose, CA

Sloppy BJs are the best!

Sentences: Tiffany did a great job writing her 50 sentences. This time, a blank paper was provided so she did not have the benefit of the lines. I feel her penmanship is fantastic. I did not deduct for all capital letters, because her writing is so easy to read. I love how uniform each sentence is, and how they practically line up down the whole page. Points were deducted however. She complained a little by saying 50 sentences is a lot…  Wait until next time Tiff.

On Saturday, Tiffany arrived on time. We watched and critiqued her videos downstairs, then went up to the playroom for the fun.

Since she wrote about sucking cocks, I wanted to see her cock sucking/chocking skills in action. She complied readily. Her greedy mouth satisfied my two spring colored cocks and gave very sloppy and noisy blow jobs.

Mistress J humiliates male sub in San Jose, CA

Pretty in pink.

Spring is my favorite season and Easter had just passed. I used to love going to my neighborhood Easter Egg hunt as a kid. Tiffany made a cute bunny, don’t you think? She hopped around the playroom as I hummed the Bunny Hop Song. Her basket was filled with Tenga eggs and since she was a good girl, she got to take one home.

Tiffany is a bondage and anal slut. So, up went the legs! I have hooks all over my playroom, so her legs were pried open with a spreader bar and attached to the ceiling, while her arms were above her head. I teased her boy pussy and enjoyed using my ice roller on her delicate parts.  Cock slapping, vibrator torture, more cock sucking & toe sucking occurred. 

Chastity in San JoseFinally, the chastity device came off! Poor Tiffany’s boy clit was in shock after being caged up for a night and morning. Despite it’s shriveled appearance, I was able to edge her several times. 

Tiff had saved her cum for a week in anticipation of our meeting. Needless to say, she was VERY sensitive and called out “edge” very early during the game. I used both my hands and my feet to edge her.

Finally, Tiffany was allowed her release. But into a condom. And she had to suck her juice out. Poor girl. Such a humiliating morning. I felt sorry for her, for 10 seconds.

But Tiffany is a trooper. She went up to San Francisco that night for more play. What can I say, girls really do just want to have fun.

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties! Mistress J in San Jose, CA

Humiliation and exposure are my specialties!

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Pegging for Newbies! Bliss is butt a short drive away.

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I have these undies in red.

Mistress J enjoys working with newbies, and she especially likes taking a man’s ass virginity.

I get many inquiries from men who have never experienced the joys of ass play, but are dying to try. “Come on over.” I tell them. Let me pop your cherry! Bliss is butt a short drive away…

First, give yourself an enema at home. A clean butt is good manners.

How to I go about stretching out a virgin ass? The most important thing is to take my time. Why rush, the journey is fun. I start with a gloved finger and lots of silicon based lube. I tease the rosebud with circular motions. As I feel you relax, I gently slide the tip of my finger in. 

I have a good grasp of reading my guest’s bodies. I can usually tell when they are relaxed enough for penetration. I tell them to listen to their body. Some days the mind is willing but the body isn’t, it’s important to honor this.

The lube is applied and my fingertip is slowly warming up the back door. When I feels it’s time, my finger slides in. I give you a taste of all of my fingers. Next, I move on to my vibrating butt plug. After enjoying the cool vibes, I decide what you might need and can handle next.

Some butts need the slut machine, which is my Hitachi capped with a prostate adapter. This provides a fab warm up to a dildo. The dual speeds are guaranteed to make you squeal with pleasure. I love using this toy on seasoned as well as virgin butts. It’s a favorite of mine and my friends. I invite you to try it.

Now, this next part determines how slutty your virgin ass is. Do I need to use my smallest dildo, or can I start with something bigger?

Most of the time we start with my smallest burgundy strap-on. I keep 4 cocks mounted and ready to go. My harness of choice is the Terra Firma with buckle by Stormy Leather.  While I often start with the slimmest dildo, there have been a few butts able to start 1 or 2 steps larger. In fact, this happened yesterday.

Doggie style. A self portrait.

I like to have my guest take my cock on all fours while kneeling on my chaise lounge. I love the view, and it’s such a good height. Sometimes, this angle doesn’t work well for a virgin butt. I find having my slut lay on his back on my massage table with his legs up is a fun and easy way to slip in. Plus, this really is the ultimate roll reversal. I get to be the man, and he takes it like the little bitch he is.

I feel I am a fabulous butt-fucker. I suggest if you are curious about being pegged and are a newbie, you can’t go wrong with me.

Paul was a butt virgin, now he’s a regular. He takes my biggest cocks and begs for more. This is what he had to say:

“Getting pegged was such an intense feeling. It made me crave it bigger and deeper.”  And trust me folks, he does.

So many men started out with my small dong, now they crave the biggest things I have. And I am always adding to my collection.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Set Your Kinky Goals for The NEW YEAR!!

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A new year is finally here! An empty calendar awaits. Let’s fill it up with some kinky resolutions, as always, Mistress J is here to help.

My favorite saying in 2018 was “So many asses, so little time.” If you are reading this, chances are you are curious about Ass Play. Don’t be shy, give it a try. I have a wide variety of cocks to choose from. Something should fit.

From the smallest prostate massager to the Annihilator (and everything in between), I can accommodate beginners to experienced ass sluts. Not sure what size you can take? I can ass-ertain that question! Put your trust in me, I can treat your butt to extreme pleasure and take you places you have never been.

Perhaps you always wanted to wear panties or see yourself as a woman. I offer complete Sissy Transformations. after all, Girls Just Want to Have Fun.

Wishful Thinking

Curious about Bondage? I offer that here in the studio. I happen to be quite fond of chains. Combine chains with ass play and this could be you! →→→→→

Want to experience sweet sensual surrender? Bondassage® is for you. Bondassage takes you on a journey of sensation surprises. A deliberate sequence of motions and implements allows you to give up complete control and go toward your  deeply hidden desires. Through discipline and tease & denial, submit to Me, and I will take you on an exploration of the senses….

Take a look at my BDSM Menu page for more kinky ideas.  Together, we can make 2019 your kinkiest year yet.
 
I work with women, men, non-binary folks, couples and individuals alike. I teach, demonstrate, dominate and sensualate (a new word).

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender exploration are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Wax and Wane. A tale of wax play.

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Mistress J has a steady stream of regular clients with particular interests. Today’s blog post features Moe,* a gentleman who is really into the art of wax play.

Always on the lookout for things to delight my guests, I came across these body wax candles . from Agreeable Agony when I was at DomCon this past May. I bought them with Moe in mind. You see, not only are they beautiful, but they come in glass pitchers that allow for a nice pour, and Mistress doesn’t get her fingers scorched. They burn at a slightly lower temperature, and I can usually peel them off in a long, sexy strip.

Such agreeable clean up

I start of his session by securing him to the table and warming him up with a nice, sensual massage, rubbing the warmed oil over his body. A coat of oil provides a nice barrier for the wax, and the dried wax comes off easier. After I get his body tingling with sensations, I randomly pour the hot, melted wax on him.

rollin’, rollin’ rollin’ RAWhide!

For added effect, I often use my ice roller. Moe is a huge sensation slut and likes the alternating feeling of heat and ice. Sometimes he even screams as the hot wax drips into a sensitive or intimate area… But he must like it, he keeps coming back.

We have conducted very comprehensive and scientific studies on the candles and have reached these conclusions:

The cheap candles burn the hottest. Moe likes those best, as he’s a wax slut. They are however, the most difficult to clean up because they crumble like crazy and make a big mess.

Variety is the spice of life!

Miss J pours it on thick.

The Agreeable Agony candles are my favorite. I love the pitcher for ease of pouring and also really enjoy peeling the wax off of his body. I aim to peel the whole strip off without it breaking. Look at the photo for an example of what I’m talking about.

The English citron candles I use to make the house smell good are also nice, and sit firmly in the middle of the rating scale. They come in a glass jar, which is handy, and they don’t crumble as much as the cheap ones, and they’re by far the best smelling ones I use.

So, to make the most of it, I use every type of candle I have and let Moe enjoy them, one by one, drip by drip.

Cleaning the wax off of him is fun for the both of us, and sometimes I thinks it’s my favorite part of the session, aside from Moe’s screams. As i mentioned earlier, I love peeling off long strips of wax. Bur what about the other types? Well, those metal claws I have come in handy. I use one to scrape off the chunks. It provides an interesting sensation for Moe and I think is even a little scary.

After tormenting his back, I turn him over and start all over again!

If you have a hankerin’ for wax play, and are curious about my style of Feminine Domination, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

*not his real name.

A Few More (new) Things…

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Talk about Spring Cleaning!

I thought I’d use the first day of summer to talk about all the spring changes I made here at my humble abode. The condo was painted from top to bottom. New carpeting was installed on the stairs, landing and my bedroom. Now the best part: Laminate Flooring!

The entire downstairs and my playroom boast beautiful Pergo floors. It’s so pretty and durable. I invite you to come and book a session to see them in person!

Here is a pano shot of my playroom: 

X marks the spot!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The cross has been re-stained and is now mounted on the wall. It opens the floor quite a bit and creates a nice focal point.

 

A friend bought me a leather sling for my birthday. I have been wanting one forever, and now I have one! Let me know if you wanna take a ride! 

 

sling-a-ding-ding

 

 

 

 

 

I’m so happy with my updated space. I think you’ll like it too. As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

 

A Mistress Among Many. Miss J Went to DomCon LA!

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Last month, I attended DomCon in LA. It was a birthday gift to myself, as I have always wanted to attend. DomCon was celebrating it’s 15th anniversary, and it was the weekend after my birthday, so it seemed like a good sign I should attend. I was only there for the weekend, from May 11-13, but the convention runs for a whole week.

I have attended many kink events here in the Bay Area. Many have been FemmeDomme oriented and others mixed energy. As a female dominant, I enjoy events with strong female energy, and while this was an event for both female and male dominants, there was LOTS of fabulous FemmeDomme energy swirling around. DomCon is an event for professionals and lifestyle enthusiasts alike, and was started by Mistress Cyan. You can read the history of DomCon here.

One of my favorite activities was sitting in the hotel lobby watching the non-kinky folk stare at the convention attendees gathered in the lobby. Folks were dressed in their finest leather, rubber, vinyl, lacy, black red, BDSM outfits. The actual convention area was blocked off and had security, but us kinksters enjoyed the lobby and restaurants as well.

It was very empowering for me to be at an event with such a strong female dominant presence, and one that acknowledged the legitimacy of professional domination. I enjoyed being a part of the Dominant women who strutted about, using their sexuality as a possible weapon and not getting punished for it I loved seeing Dommes of ALL ages being trailed by their submissives, especially the male ones. No catcalls, no grabbing, just being admired.

It’s also a gender fluid environment. I liked seeing altar egos or true genders embraced and on display as some people born with boy parts freely exhibited their feminine side and wore dresses in PUBLIC! There was even a cross-dressing pageant hosted by Alice in Bondageland. My sissy had broken out in hives, so we didn’t compete this year.

To be able to do this and not get harassed is something many cis-gendered white men cannot appreciate. They take this freedom for granted. I felt at this convention, the playing field was even, if not reversed. And it was FUN!

Shopping:

The shopping was fantastic and I bought a few things in the incredible vendor area. I love new things!

The soft green flogger is from Bunny Flogger. This one is so much fuller and heavier than my previous one. It has such a nice swing to it and throws nicely. This is perfect for sensual play.

I call the red thing my Dragon’s Tongue. It can provide a sensual little lick with the tip or provide a stingy swat. It depends on my mood. This was purchased from Agreeable Agony, and it was exactly what I was looking for to add to my tools.    

Another thing at the Agreeable Agony booth caught my eye. These beautiful soy candles in the glass pitcher. I have a few friends that like wax play and these keep Mistress J’s fingers from getting burned. They also clean up nicely.

Leather by Danny had these cute little CBT boards. I really like this because the cock stays in place and I can torment it any way I like. I was being nice here, I used a shoe lace. But for really bad boys, I have some scratchy twine that will feel great on those tender parts.

Intrigued? Contact me. I’d love to use my new toys on you!

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Harness the Energy! Can a harness help in strap-on play?

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The short answer is hell ya! But I digress.

A friend was over today, and as I was shoving one dildo up his butt, and another in his mouth, I wondered if I could somehow harness this sexy energy and generate electricity. If I could, imagine how low my power bills would go!

If anyone out there knows how I could do this, drop me a line. Trust me, by the sheer volume of my pervy friends, we could become rich if we could generate, harness, store and sell the electricity produced by this unique activity.

Speaking of harnesses, I have two. I have the Doggie Style strap and the Luv Rydr. I purchased the doggie strap from Curvy Girl, and Texas Tim gave me the Luv Rydr.

Both harnesses can be used on women for PIV experiences or on men for pegging.

So, What do these harnesses do? They enhance the experience of the receiver and assist the giver. I call it a

Who let the dogs out?

win-win Jim. 

In the case of the doggie strap, the giver enjoys having most of the pressure off the lower back. She can lean back and have her body weight balance her body. By gripping the handles, and she can use her arms to create motion.

The receiver enjoys a deep feeling of penetration. The padded strap slides under the belly, and when the giver lifts the strap, a wonderful feeling of deepness occurs. 

The doggie strap has been well received and has been my favorite until the Luv Rydr showed up…

I’M TOO SEXY…

So, the first thought on this thing  is: “What the hell. This thing is butt ugly.” Look at it, it’s ridiculous! But, never judge book by it’s cover. Despite the clownish appearance, this thing gets the job done!

The device hooks over the arms, and there is an adjustable strap attached to the padded handle. The arm straps connect to a padded chest piece and there are no pressure points to make the experience uncomfortable for the wearer.

The giver grabs the paddled handle, and despite thinking of trapezes, gets to work.

When I was pounding Texas Tim, I couldn’t feel any stress points either. I didn’t think the thing was working, But Tim told me otherwise.

“Very good, the experience, lived up to how I had imaged it. The leather was soft, and I felt controlled by you as you pulled back on the handle. I had to move back to you or at least stay put as I could not move away from your thrusting deep into me. I felt like you were pounding me harder and deeper.

It helps get me into a sub-space where I knew I was a plaything for your use. Adding into that my legs were chained and spread open, I felt completely at your mercy. I was doing my best to please you so that the lesson that you own my ass would not require a larger Mistress cock. Knowing that if you had decided to go bigger, there I was in no position to refuse. (I know I always have my safe words) but when you take me to that place where I feel safe being submissive I enjoy feeling completely under your control. 

So yes, I think the harness was a great gift I hope you enjoyed using it on me.”

See pervy peeps, the Luv Ryder is so well designed, it takes the pressure off, so to speak, and real work can be accomplished.

A female receiver reviewed the Luv Rydr:

“As the “receiver” of the fun, wearing it did make me feel very objectified and the feeling  that “I only exist to be f****ed”. 

As the person wearing it, it is very comfortable. The stress on the body is very well distributed over the shoulders, so it’s really easy to wear for a long time.  Nothing rubbing strangely or scratchy.

The harness did lead to me being f****ed silly for a very long time. I like it very hard and intense so it did add to that kind of fun.  It created very deep penetration and I had that feeling (that I love) like I cannot get away, and I just have to take it. That makes me so turned on.  So much fun.”

Based on my recommendation, a male friend bought his own Luv Rydr and used it on his female partner. He said:

“The Luv Rydr harness works in the same manner as the doggie strap, giving you handles, but it holds the whole person.  It allows you to make sure your partner can’t get away and you can get great pressure.  It’s holding them on the shoulders, really keeping them in place.  It can even allow different angles that normally can’t be done more than a pump.  Since it’s on the shoulder and a sturdy point to harness, you can balance yourself and pound away.”

So there you have it folks. I use these things for a reason, and, that reason is you! And in case you were wondering, I did not receive any compensation from these fine companies.

ride, Sally ride.

As usual, I invite you to contact me for a session in my San Jose studio.

Intrigued? Contact me.

Mistress J Studios is a sex positive studio that provides a safe place for personal expression. Nude male photography, male and female submission, cross dressing and gender bending are welcomed and encouraged here.

My email is mistressjstudios@gmail.com.  I am in San Jose, California.  I look forward to hearing from you.